ऐसा क्यों हैं- 3 ? ईगो

लड़कियों ने किसी लड़के के इनकार करने पर उस पर तेज़ाब फेंक दिया हो ,अपहरण कर लिया हो ,उसके ना को सुन कर छेड़ना या धमकियाँ देना शुरू कर दिया हो , धमकियों भरा पत्र या काल करना शुरू कर दिया हो . वे उनके कपड़े नहीं खिंचती , भीड़ में उनके नाज़ुक जगहों पर चोट नहीं करतीं.

ऐसा क्यों ??? ऐसा क्यों नहीं करतीं लड़कियाँ ?क्या वे बहकना नहीं जानती या उनमें ईगो नहीं होता ?

ज़िंदगी के रंग- 89

एक टुकड़ा ज़िंदगी का

बानगी है पूरे जीवन के

जद्दोजहद का .

उठते – गिरते, हँसते-रोते

कभी पूरी , कभी स्लाइसों

में कटी ज़िंदगी

जीते हुए कट हीं जाती है .

इसलिए मन की बातें

और अरमानों के

पल भी जी लेने चाहिये.

ताकि अफ़सोस ना रहे

अधूरे हसरतों ….तमन्नाओं …. की.

Child friendly courts: HC urges state government, India

In February 2018, The Supreme Court directed that “child friendly and vulnerable witness courts” be set up in every district.

These special courts try offenses under the protection of children from sexual offences act, juvenile Justice act, prohibition of marriage act and sexual offences against minors under the Indian penal code.

Such courts have already been set up in Delhi, Hyderabad, Bengaluru and Kolkata.

The court in Bengaluru has two rooms separated by a one-way glass shield, there is video conferencing facility for children who refuse to testify in court.

The model “child witness courtroom” in Delhi also has a play area and a pantry.

Source:

The times of India, Mumbai, Thursday, August 16, 2018, pg-5.

Poor sleep triggers viral loneliness and social rejection

Poor sleep can literally kill your social life.

UC Berkeley researchers have found that sleep-deprived people feel lonelier and less inclined to engage with others, avoiding close contact in much the same way as people with social anxiety.

Worse still, that alienating vibe makes sleep-deprived individuals more socially unattractive to others. Moreover, even well-rested people feel lonely after just a brief encounter with a sleep-deprived person, triggering a viral contagion of social isolation.

The findings, published today in the journal Nature Communications, are the first to show a two-way relationship between sleep loss and becoming socially isolated, shedding new light on a global loneliness epidemic.

“We humans are a social species. Yet sleep deprivation can turn us into social lepers,” said study senior author Matthew Walker, a UC Berkeley professor of psychology and neuroscience.

Notably, researchers found that brain scans of sleep-deprived people as they viewed video clips of strangers walking toward them showed powerful social repulsion activity in neural networks that are typically activated when humans feel their personal space is being invaded. Sleep loss also blunted activity in brain regions that normally encourage social engagement.

Courtesy:

1.http://news.berkeley.edu/2018/08/14/sleep-viral-loneliness/

2. Mumbai mirror.

Kabir : The songs of a weaver – 1

Listen carefully,

neither the vedas

nor the Quran

will teach you this:

put the bit in its mouth,

The saddle on its back,

your foot in the stirrup,

And ride your wild runway mind,

all the way to heaven.

Meaning

Self – rider

chariot – the body

The intellect – charioteer,

Our mind – reins

The senses – horse,

The parts around them are the objects of the senses.

Translated by : Vinay Dharwadker